Friday, December 21, 2007

New Pictures

Well, we've had a bevy of new pics downloaded, so I thought I would throw a few on the blog here:



Here's Jae playing. He's getting pretty big, even though he fell off the growth chart at his last check-up. He's finally started taking to solids, so hopefully we'll get him nice and plump for his next visit to the doctor.






Our little family at Temple Square for the lights.








Me and the boys in my hospital bed, post-appendectomy.








I know this one is blurry, but I love it. We had to leave our ward Christmas party early. I was sad that Boston wasn't going to be able to see Santa, but as we were leaving, we heard some jingle bells and then, there he was. It was so fun to see Boston have a one on one moment with Santa outside of a mall. The joy on his face when he showed up was priceless!





Boston and his cousin, Caleb.
AKA: Thing One and Thing Two
AKA: Trouble




Well, I'm sure there are a bunch more that I could post, but I don't want to overwhelm the blogspot server. We will definitely have a whole bunch after Christmas.

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Appendicitis Sucks!

Well, the last 48 hours have been pretty exciting for me (Ben). Friday afternoon, I started to feel a little sick to my stomach and thought I was having some indigestion. I left work a little early and tried to get home, but traffic was bad and it took me an hour to get home from Draper. It was a long, uncomfortable ride. I didn't think too much of it and expected it would run its course through the evening. I had planned to meet with my good friend, Adam Spencer, who I haven't seen in a couple of years. We enjoyed a good evening of catching up and reminscing about where we've been and what we're doing. I wasn't getting any better, though. In fact, I was getting worse. Late that night, I got nauseous and developed chills that I couldn't get over. I thought maybe it was the Cafe Rio burrito I'd eaten for lunch and I could just sleep it off. I had a pretty nasty pain in my side, but attributed it to the indigestion.

In the morning, I felt a little better. My pain had subsided, but was still there and was sensitive to the touch. I was supposed to go skiing with my dad, and we had a busy day in general planned, but I ended up staying home all day, honing my Guitar Hero skills. Jenny got back from her parties and errands about 2:00 or so. We ran some errands and decided to swing by the instacare, but the wait was an hour, so we decided to bag it. I was convinced that things would resolve on their own and wasn't excited about seeing the doctor anyway. We went back home to wait things out, but with a little coaxing from my father in law and Jenny, I decided to take another shot at the instacare.

We hit the instacare about 6:00 and I got all signed in, but when the receptionist saw my symptoms, she recommended I just go to the ER. She said there wasn't much they could do there if it was appendicitis. They were kind enough to give me back the copay and send us on our way. We got to the ER and I went and checked in while Jenny took the kids to Target where Jami was meeting her to pick them up. My wait in the ER was fairly typical. There weren't too many people there, but a young couple on a date came in after getting in a car accident. The girl had her arm broken by the airbag and her poor date was trying to help her out. I got the impression that this was either a first date, or they hadn't been going out too long. It was a little awkward when he had to ask her if she was pregnant, had given birth recently and the date of her last menstrual cycle. At the end of the form, he had to put in their relationship and they weren't quite sure how to classify it.

I got triaged ahead of a girl with congestion and a headache who checked in the same time I did. I also got in just ahead of the broken arm couple. They took me in and got me settled. Jenny had gotten back and my dad showed up a little bit later. They came in to draw some blood and I had to give a urine sample. While I was having my blood drawn, I thought I was going to pass out and had to lay down. I got really woozy and light headed, so they gave me some oxygen. They started an IV as well at that point. The doctor came in eventually and was pretty confident almost immediately that I would have to get my appendix removed. They waited for the blood tests to come back. The next time I saw the doctor, he said his findings were confirmed and they were going to get a surgeon to come in. He started to explain the procedure when the surgeon came walking in, did a little evaluation, explained the procedure, and off we went that quick to the OR.

I was fortunate in a lot of ways. The surgeon had just wrapped up a case and decided to call down to the ER to see if they needed him, which they just did, for me. I got to the ER at just the right time, and although they said they had a full house, I didn't have to wait long. By the time I was being wheeled to the OR, though, they did have a full house and it was starting to get overcrowded.

I was extremely fortunate to have my dad there to give me a blessing. I was also fortunate that the anesthesiologist was a worthy priesthood holder who was willing to annoint. It was special to have that calming blessing from my father just minutes before I was under the anesthesia. The next think I knew, I was awake in the recovery room. I hung out there with the recovery room nurse for a few minutes before they wheeled me up to room 207. Within a matter of 3 hours, I had been through the ER, operated on and was resting comfortably (well, as comfortable as you can feel post-operatively) in a hospital room. I was no longer with an appendix and had two small incisions in my belly and a reopened belly button. Other than that, no worse for wear.

My night was pretty uneventful except for the hourly vital checks for the first few hours of the night. I was able to get some sleep and overall have felt pretty good. I was discharged about 11:45 after my last prescibed round of IV antibiotics. We then came to my parents home to rest and recuperate.

Overall, I think things went as well as they possibly could. The timing was impeccable as apparently the thing was just about ready to pop. I should be back to full health for Chrismas and won't have to worry about an emergency appendectomy on the cruise in January. I've already been there, done that.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Saturday, December 1, 2007

Black Friday and Beyond

So, back in time to over a week ago...

Black Friday has been a tradition for Jenny and I ever since we got married. We started the first day after Thanksgiving that we were married. We decided on a whim to go to Best Buy and get a door buster deal on an Aladdin DVD. We went to the Best Buy on Riverdale Road and ended up towards the end of the line about 1/2 mile away (maybe a bit of an exaggeration, but not much)in front of the Lowe's. People were amazed that we would get up that early for a $15 DVD. I was amazed that that many people would sacrifice sleep after a holiday to wait in the cold for these deals. We were in and out of the store in about 10 minutes with our DVD and a couple of other things. We decided that since it was so early, we would go to Kohls to see what was going on there. We ended up buying the rest of our Christmas and had all our shopping done within an hour. It took us two hours to pay, though. We decided two things on that day: 1) We were going to do this every year, and 2) we needed to recruit some people to tag team with.

Since then, our experience had evolved in sophistication. We recruited my brother Adam and his wife Jami the next year. We split time in line so our whole experience was only about 2 hours. We were careful to choose a few items from the Thanksgiving day ads and mapped out a path for the next morning. The last two years we've been accompanied by my sister and her husband and my other brother. We've seen some pretty crazy things and we always make sure to have fun or it could be a pretty miserable experience.

This year was somewhat different in that we didn't have any specific items we were shopping for, but there was no way that was going to stop us. We did start a little later than usual and made Target our one major stop. We got there shortly before the doors opened at 6:00. The line was already down the entire front of the store and around the corner to the back side. We ended up back there and counted down the minutes before the doors opened. My Jami, Sarah and Matt decided to hang out towards the front of the line to witness the inevitable commotion. There were a few skirmishes as people outside the lines tried to push there way in. I will say, to Target's credit, they had things pretty well under control this year. By the time we were getting into the store, the real die-hards were already making their way out with their doorbuster big-ticket items. We made sure to let the guys who sacrificed
sleep and the possibility of frost bite for a $575 flat screen TV that we respected their efforts.

We make it a priority to get the cheap DVDs. They had a great selection and we stocked up. We got a few toy items for the kids, some great deals, and just took in the sights and sounds of a Target packed with enough humanity and shopping carts to fill, well, a SuperTarget. One piece of advice...don't bother with a cart unless you have someone who can stay with the cart outside of the main congestion. Have runners to make specific grabs in high-concentration areas, specifically the toy section. Another tip: bring all of your patience with you. I can't believe how many grumpy people show up at these early morning sales, cursing and complaining about the crowded ailes and lack of personal help. What did you expect coming into this? A little common sense, please.

At any rate, after Target, we split up a bit and headed off to other destinations. There is an Old Navy and a Toys R Us within walking distance of Target so we made a trip over there and got some good, unexpected deals. We waited in line for a little while at Toys R Us, but overall it was a good experience for our first time in that store on Black Friday.

We wrapped up our morning at a little after 8:00. I think it's worth the time and effort to get all of our shopping done in about 2 hours. You also can't beat the deals you can find, even when you're not planning on finding any.

After that, we enjoyed the rest of the long weekend with family and friends. It never seems to last long enough and then you're back at work. It's busier than usual because you're playing catch up for the short week the week before. It also seemed like everyone was sick with something. I had one day where there was one MA in my clinic with 3 doctors because everyone else was late or sick. Must have been sleeping off the tryptophan. It's weird to think that Christmas is only 24 days away.